Polite rejection dating, or with your the province account:
As for how to do it?
I think that it depends on the person; some people would be thankful for someone to be blunt, others would be offended. Submit a new text post.
Blur out the faces of anyone who isn't you. You have to accept the bad guy or girl role unless you want to create an even angrier person out of your former prospect. Goodness, ignoring people is the polite thing nowadays?
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In fact, I think dudes I like who reject me as a prospective partner right up front are pretty sweet for having the nerve to just rip the band-aid off, and I have gone on to be good friends with some of them as a result. If I don't give a fuck if someone replies, I'm not likely to start giving a fuck just after a couple of dates.
And then do not communicate any further, polite rejection dating when prodded. This is not a rejection required scenario. If you're concerned about follow-ups, you can send the note and block the polite rejection dating.
In an ideal world, it would be great if everyone just sent back a message like "No, sorry you are too fat for me", "sorry, I'm booked this week", "I'm looking for someone with a job for long-term," or "Sorry, but you're not tall enough for my taste. Leaving the options open?
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So be thoughtful and kind but blunt. If someone just says "hey" with no other information, that's fair to ignore.
The following line is pretty darn effective but only use it as a last resort: Bling on a Budget! On his blog, Dr. Anyhow, I don't think my online dating profile is anything great, but I continue to get messages from women who want to chat.
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Either Ambient2 or edgeways notes are fine. If every single guy who wasn't into me wrote to explain that I would just cry.
That being said, I get nasty replies from people I politely decline, or the "Ohhh so you're too good for me" hate message from the ignored.
Good luck out there.